Recently one of my sons (11 year old) was covertly bullied and physically “shoved” (without apology and that would be now abuse) by a parent of the same class and of the same club. The actions were taken by this person were so covertly enacted that I was aware of only one of the three matters after the race day was finished. Basically he was intentionally doing these things when I wasn’t nearby to protect my children.
This person (who is also an AKA official) in-acted the following on my son.
- Ordered several race officials to penalise my son/s before a race even started. I have written statements from several officials that confirm this happened more than once.
- Physically “shoved” my son while he was trying to put sauce on his pie without any apology.
- In an act of poor sportsmanship got to his feet in the grandstand in front of a capacity crowd and cheered with delight when my son’s chain fell off during the final race of the day.
Our primary concern is item 2 but the other ones just collaborates one’s state of mind on the day. As a family we took immediate action (within 3 days) to protect our children by applying for a Personal Protection Order (PPO) against this person harming our two youngest sons in the ACT magistrates Court. On this day the magistrate said that the PPO would only be effective within the ACT as they had no authority outside ACT. The Magistrate also asked “Why hasn’t the club or the national body not investigated this matter and followed disciplinary procedures”? My answer (defending the club and the AKA) was to say that to be honest it’s only been 3 days and they probably haven’t had time. He agreed and set a mediation and hearing date for a week later. We then took this person to mediation a week later.
The lead up to that hearing was quite interesting. The Club did interview the Person and met with myself. The meeting with myself included the club’s President, Secretary and Chief Executive. Allot was discussed but the following was disclosed by the Secretary and President.
- That the Person admitted to items 2 and 3.
- He refused to admit to 1 but I just couldn’t believe him as I have several written statements from race officials on the day and others who witness those discussions that state otherwise.
I didn’t ask at that meeting what actions would be taken by the club’s executive as I expected a full investigation and disciplinary process to be followed so it was not my position to ask at that time.
All correspondence that occurred that week was also copied to the AKA NSW state prosecutor with no response and surprisingly little to no interest shown. I did get a second hand verbal message saying that my action to apply for a PPO against this person was “over the top” and the club and AKA should be actioning the matter.
During Court mediation it was bought to my attention by the mediator that if we were to proceed to a hearing and a PPO was implemented that the “person” would have that against his record and as it is an Adult on a Child it could dramatically affect that person. Keeping that in mind and also that the club and the AKA had not had a reasonable opportunity to pursue the matter I agreed that if that person made a court sealed and endorsed “Solemn Promise” that he would not re-offend in anyway by not harming either of my two younger sons for 12 months, (and that I believed that the club and or the AKA would properly investigate and impose penalties accordingly), I reluctantly agreed to retract the PPO application.
Since then I have offered my evidence package to both the club and the AKA NSW Prosecutor that includes a chorology of the events and 11 supporting statements from many well respected karting persons who were present on that Southern Stars race weekend in Canberra. Neither the Club’s executive or AKA’s NSW prosecutor have asked for my evidence package. While the club did perform an investigation it was without my evidence package.
The club did request a copy of the court “Solemn Promise” and we supplied that. We have had no other official correspondence from the club on the matter since.
The AKA NSW prosecutor has stated in an email to me that “The matter was discussed by the Board of Karting NSW in an in camera session as per the published minutes. The Board of Karting NSW acknowledges the fact that the matter has already been actioned by the Local Magistrates Court and will not be taking any further action at this stage.
To date no detailed investigation, disciplinary process or penalty has been undertaken on this person by either the club and or the AKA NSW state Prosecutor.
As a parent, what’s really concerning about all of this is the nature (or mind set) in which this person took such action against a minor.
I am sure that all the parents out there need to know that if they expect that due process in such matters would be undertaken by the governing bodies, then they may well be very much mistaken.
It is not my intention to harm the sport in which my family holds dearly by informing everyone of this unfortunate situation, but it is on the contrary my duty as the parent involved to not just protect my family but to inform other parents that choose this sport as a family activity. Hopefully such disclosure will in the end, force the matter to be correctly and fairly handled so it will enhance our sport.
I, Neil Allen declare that all of what I have written above is true in every respect to my knowledge and I would oblige in signing an affidavit to its effect if required.
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Neil, as you have indicated in item 2 that this person 'shoved' your boy, then this constitutes an assault. A criminal matter that could have been reported to and investigated by Police. It is your prerogative to follow that path if you had of so desired.
The other 2 matters should be investigated by our governing body. Did you make a formal complaint via your club?
Dear Pete
I agree with you in that these matters take time to process, but I'm not sure if you picked it up from my post that there was a direct quote from an email I received from the AKA NSW State prosecutor which said
"The matter was discussed by the Board of Karting NSW in an in camera session as per the published minutes. The Board of Karting NSW acknowledges the fact that the matter has already been actioned by the Local Magistrates Court and will not be taking any further action at this stage."
Thus the reason I have gone to this length in posting the story to alert other parents as to what level of support they can expect from the governing bodies.
Thanks again for your interest. the more we have the more it will help the sport.
Regards Neil
Neville Scullion said:
Neil, as you have indicated in item 2 that this person 'shoved' your boy, then this constitutes an assault. A criminal matter that could have been reported to and investigated by Police. It is your prerogative to follow that path if you had of so desired.
The other 2 matters should be investigated by our governing body. Did you make a formal complaint via your club?
Dear Neville
My lawyers and I agree with you that it constitutes assault and yes it could mean that we eventually go down that path. However there are allot of negatives for all involved in doing such so I just think for now if we can have the governing bodies just do their jobs, fairly then we may just be happy with that.
The Club and the AKA(Karting NSW) are aware of all of the 3 items and I have jointly emailed both bodies several times.
Thanks again for your interest. The more we have the more it will help the sport.
Regards Neil
Hi Peter,
Why would you suggest patience is needed? That implies the AKA NSW are still looking into it, when clearly they are not. Further the only thing they have to offer is a complaint to Neil that he took things too far...
Read Neil's statement again.
Pete Chronis said:
Neil,
I'm not sure nor do I need to know how long from "the alleged" or in fact incident as per you statement, the application for the PPO, mediation and the handing over of all the relevant documents to KA , however, the process and investigation in such a matter, I assume would need to be in depth, and could take months,
I'm not defending the KA, I'm just suggesting that some patience be exercised.
Not good, and I respect your actions as a parent.
Some may say very restrained, under the circumstances if as stated.
cheers
Pete
the ugly side of karting rears its ugly bloody face again
if what you say is correct it saddens me as an old karter
its the youngins in our sport that will keep it alive
behaviour like this should be well investegated and a report on the AKA website
so all can see-----------------------------cheers ted
Sad sad case Neil.
I am again worried that when faced with a SERIOUS matter against one of their "own" AKANSW have dropped the ball. to say in the email no further action at this stage is worrying, you need to pursue it further and change the last words of that sentence to "will investigate further".
If there is enoough evidence to convict or take action in the civil arena but not enough inside the sport what does that say about our sport???
Those on the board of the AKANSW need to ask themselves are they really acting in the best interest of the sport in this case?
ted kelly said:
the ugly side of karting rears its ugly bloody face again
if what you say is correct it saddens me as an old karter
its the youngins in our sport that will keep it alive
behaviour like this should be well investegated and a report on the AKA website
so all can see-----------------------------cheers ted
Thanks for your support Ted. Neil
Paul Hewitt said:
Sad sad case Neil.
I am again worried that when faced with a SERIOUS matter against one of their "own" AKANSW have dropped the ball. to say in the email no further action at this stage is worrying, you need to pursue it further and change the last words of that sentence to "will investigate further".
If there is enoough evidence to convict or take action in the civil arena but not enough inside the sport what does that say about our sport???
Dear Paul
There are limited ways we can pursue without causing whole lots of other negatives for my family. Just not the thing we want to do in a sport to which we wanted to share with our children in our recreational time.
We have as a result withdrawn our participation in the Southern Star series. We also try to whenever possible not to choose race events that we suspect that person is attending. So, in a sense it has penalised us.
The main reason for my original post is to alert other families of the level of support they can expect from the governing bodies if they are so unfortunate to be victim of a similar incident. Thus no names disclosed.
I don't wish to personalise the matter but just rather raise the awareness to a level that hopefully results in simply the governing bodies doing their job.
Best Regards Neil
Those on the board of the AKANSW need to ask themselves are they really acting in the best interest of the sport in this case?
Paul Hewitt said:
Sad sad case Neil.
I am again worried that when faced with a SERIOUS matter against one of their "own" AKANSW have dropped the ball. to say in the email no further action at this stage is worrying, you need to pursue it further and change the last words of that sentence to "will investigate further".
If there is enoough evidence to convict or take action in the civil arena but not enough inside the sport what does that say about our sport???
Those on the board of the AKANSW need to ask themselves are they really acting in the best interest of the sport in this case?
Dear Paul
There are limited ways we can pursue without causing whole lots of other negatives for my family. Just not the thing we want to do in a sport to which we wanted to share with our children in our recreational time.
We have as a result withdrawn our participation in the Southern Star series. We also try to whenever possible not to choose race events that we suspect that person is attending. So, in a sense it has penalised us.
The main reason for my original post is to alert other families of the level of support they can expect from the governing bodies if they are so unfortunate to be victim of a similar incident. Thus no names disclosed.
I don't wish to personalise the matter but just rather raise the awareness to a level that hopefully results in simply the governing bodies doing their job.
Best Regards Neil
Hi Neil
Sad to hear of this but its your call. I just do hope this person does realise what he has done expecially with items 2/3 which he admitted to, cheering another persons demise is not good sportsmanship and if he is an oficial will reflect badly on him as well as you would hope all officils would have a good sense of sportsmanship eh.
Dear Pete
I couldn't agree more with you. There are always two sides to a story and I would like to hear the other side's story even though there has been admissions. All that anyone could ask for is for the governing body's (club and AKA) to thoroughly investigate and prosecute fairly. I'm sure if this was the case then we wouldn't have the need to be talking about it now.
Thanks again for your interest.
Best Regards Neil
I can't imagine an official can give a penalty unless an offence has been committed.
A restraining order for a bump in the canteen line? Wow!
Cheering when a competitor is out - sounds like there is more to this story. I wonder what if anything has provoked this competitor to act ?
We'll I hope your children can rise above all this, focus on kart preparation so their chains don't fall off and enjoy racing.